‘‘Tears are the language of spirit’

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Counselling

The heart often leads us back to ourselves, and sometimes we find we need support in that journey. Counselling is a service of the heart and I hold this with reverence, curiosity and care in a nurturing confidential space co-created by myself, Amaia, and the client.

In counselling I work with people in the unfolding of themselves, the gradual working with layers of complexity and a journey back to self. The counselling journey is one of exploration with reconnection often at the centre of the work. And, this is work. I will accompany you, walk alongside you, hold what needs holding for you. You will be the author of your own inner work.

The journey of each client is unique, and so the work we do together is also unique. To find out more about how I work and the ways in which I practice, explore here.

To find out about the kinds of things you might expect in counselling such as the investment, time and location, explore see FAQs below.

My practice is always evolving as I deepen my own work with varied psychotherapeutic philosophies and models. I aim to evolve a practice that works within diversity, actively practises anti-oppression and remains open to learning and rethinking. I will also work with clients in an endeavour to resource the client and am aware of my own privilege and senses.


Amaia has been working with grief for the last two decades.

In 2006 I wrote my dissertation on Vervain - plant kin of grief and magic. I have always been called to working with plants, people and grief, tending each person or group and feeling into how nature in grief is so therapeutic. When I was studying body-centred psychotherapy I again felt the call to work with grief and all its manifestations. I studied with Azul Valerie Thome in her Grief Composting work and have had supportive healing roles with many involved in activism.

Rose ceremonies are my most popular grief ceremony but vervain, elecampane and many other plant kin may be chosen or blended.

See below for my grief tending offerings.

Grief Tending

  • Grief Tending 1:1

    Sessions held within the wild space of herbalism and plant kin consultation.

  • Grief Tending Groups

    Small groups are held within a circle where will explore, share and tend grief in the wild.

  • Rose Ceremony

    Individual and Group Rose Ceremonies, working with grief, self love, nourishment and release.